23 March, 2007 - Bear with us here; this section's a little sparse right now, especially some of our other articles on the topic appeared in print publications that have exclusive rights to articles for a certain amount of time. But people keep reading them, so we keep writing them! Check back periodically to see what we've added.

What's Kink Magic All About? - read this before jumping into the rest of the writings. Even if you already know what kink magic is, this will give you a better idea of where we're coming from and what motivates us.

Articles by Lupa and Taylor

This is a collection of essays by us on the combination of kink, magic and spirituality, as well as related topics. We're not the ultimate authorities on the topic; nobody really is, as everyone interprets both kink and magic differently. However, we hope our thoughts inspire your own practices.

NEW - 19 August, 2007 - Bringing About Trust by Taylor - the importance of trust in kink magic
NEW - 4 August, 2007 - Giving vs. Taking in BDSM by Taylor - The balance between giving and taking in a BDSM relationship
Sexual Minorities in the Pagan Community by Lupa - how the pagan community is handling the wide variety of sexual minorities in our ranks
Polarity and Sex Magic by Lupa and Taylor - debunking the duality myths of sex magic
Oops. I Think I Broke My Dichotomy by Lupa - why the male/female, Goddess/God dichotomy doesn't necessarily apply to all pagans
Pleasure, Pain and Punishment: BDSM and the Shamanic Journey by Taylor and Lupa - the first article we ever wrote together on kink magic; first appeared in Konton Magazine; explains some of the early basics of our version of kink magic
Fucking Through the Looking Glass by Lupa - mirrors, narcissism and sigil casting; first appeared in Konton magazine

Articles by Other Good Folk

The Path of Pain: Spiritual BDSM by Kal Cobalt on Reality Sandwich
Sensuous Sadie's BDSM and Spirituality Articles
Baphomet's Temple - writings on BDSM and spirituality by Raven Kaldera, author of Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path
Going Deep: Topspace, Bottomspace, and Sado-Erotic Ecstacy (Introduction) - a series of articles on BDSM and spirituality by Chris M.
The Ceremony of the Roses by jade - a lovely bonding ceremony which could very easily be adapted to magical purposes
The Collaring Ceremony by jade - another, more general collaring ceremony which again would work for magical adaptations
Yin and Yang by jade - a brief essay about how this symbol may apply to a D/S relationship
A Sex Magic Primer bvy Don Webb
Inappropriate Sexuality? Sex Magic, S/M and Wicca (or ‘Whipping Harry Potter’s Arse!’) by Jo Pearson - requires subscription

These are thoughts by other people on similar topics; we are accepting submissions for inclusion on this site, as well as external links to relevant writings.

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